The world paints the successful woman with a briefcase in her hand, a suit, with an admirable six figure income stepping on anyone who gets in her way.
But the truly successful woman has a deeper understanding of her calling for wisdom is her guide, the fruits of the spirit is her instructor and her rewards are of eternal significance, not just temporal. She knows that:
1. A woman’s foremost responsibility is in the home, making a success of marriage and family and therefore give her best to those she loves–by doing this she brings glory to God.
2. A woman can best serve her Lord and her country by rearing a successful family– notice that I did not say a perfect family. Success translates into serving and respecting her husband the best that she can and nurturing disciples that will share God’s word with the world.
3. The best workshop for training children in moral and spiritual values is in the home. The mother is the master teacher and she must work eagerly and hard to train them. While this looks different in every home, every master teacher understands that her home is the nursery of culture .What is taught here is forever imprinted upon the soul to affect thousands, if not millions, with either good or evil.
4. It requires the very best of a woman’s mental capacity to be an ideal wife and raise a successful family so she gives her all to the sacred work that lies in front of her. It is indeed her life’s work. She pours into everyone all that she has, she is strategic, she makes the most of every opportunity and she works late into the night and rising early to meet the new day.
5.. A woman’s glory is the esteem of her husband, the training of her children, and the overall success in the ordering and managing of her home and in that she fulfills her duties to the Lord. While she will never have perfected these things she is always working on improving them and she knows her work is a process.
As you begin your week, align your priorities with God. Start on your knees as you ask Him for wisdom and strength and blessings on the fruit of your hands.
And as you pour your all in every aspect of your home from helping your husband to educating your children do not grow weary but know that this is God’s good and perfect will for you and He will strengthen and lead you through the sacredness and beauty of it all.
The Bible gives her her place of majesty and dignity in the domestic circle which is the heart of her husband and the heart of her family. It is the female dominance of that domain, where love, tenderness, refinement, thought and tender feeling preside. “It is the privilege of making her husband happy and honored, and her sons and daughters the ornaments of human society. It is the sphere of devotion, concern,diligence, in the domestic station, and a holy and devout life. It is the sphere that was occupied by Hannah, the mother of Samuel; by Elizabeth, the mother of John; by Eunice, the mother of Timothy; and by Mary, the mother of Jesus. It is the respect and esteem of mankind.”
But may not woman, in every way in her power—benefit society by her talents and her influence? Certainly, in every legitimate way. Her sphere is clearly assigned to her by God—and only by very special and obvious calls should she be induced to leave it. Whatever breaks down the modest reserve, the domestic virtues, the persuasive gentleness, of woman, is an injury done to the community. Woman can be spared from the lecturer’s chair, the platform of general convocation, and the scene of public business; but she cannot be spared from the hearth of her husband, and the circle of her children! Substitutes can be found for her in the one, but not in the other. In the bosom of domestic privacy she fulfills with truest dignity and faithfulness the first and highest obligations of her sex.
~from FEMALE PIETY, written in 1852 by John Angell James (1785-1859)